Dear Abby: i consequently found out a few months ago that my better half, “Hal,” the daddy of my kids, has already established affairs with five women that are different. We left, and we also are now divorced.

We desperately desired revenge, therefore I have already been secretly seeing Hal’s close friend “Ron,” who he “forbade” me personally from contacting when I told him their infidelity and disrespect gave me authorization to behave in the attraction I’d for Ron. It is just a buddies with advantages situation and I also am having fun, and so I don’t really contemplate it become revenge.

Hal has spent the final five months begging me personally to forgive him and focus on our wedding, but we not love him and we certainly don’t trust him. He was told by me i would “work on” forgiving him, so now he calls, states he nevertheless really loves me personally and flirts. Read more